Having the natal Mercury in the 7th house has a strong effect on marriage, contracts, unions and all other areas ruled by this angular house. Mercury, being the planet of communication, gives a rather intellectual background to all these, and partnerships of all types are usually based on an excessive mutual flow of information. The native with Mercury in the 7th house has a strong urge for communication with his partner and would choose a good speaker and listener to share his time and everyday routine. Conversations have a stimulating effect on the couple, and it would create the person that is constantly on the phone or texting the significant other even when they are away.
This planet in House 7 will first of all amplify the need and the capacity to have exchanges and communication with others, and therefore whatever the sign, Mercury will exert its influence here in a specific way. Generally this promotes collaborations and associations, and at the level of the union, the main element is at the level of dialogue (well or badly experienced depending on the aspect). At the general relational level, it will therefore be the intellect and the verbal exchange that will be privileged more than the “feeling” or the sensitivity.
With good aspects of Pluto, it will be the sense of diagnosis, the ability to understand and detect things in others, so it gives psychological meaning…. those of Neptune will give more of an intuitive and inspired spirit in relationships. .. those of Uranus will give a modern and innovative spirit, an additional dynamic in the dialogue and the exchanges, but also of the independence of spirit… those of Saturn will give more force, seriousness, and realism in the way of judging and expressing ideas in relationships… those of Jupiter will give a greater ability to convince, negotiate, sell, advise, etc… those of Mars will give a stronger practical sense… Those of Venus (well-aspected conjunction) will allow you to please by speaking and to find the right words….those of the Moon will give a better sense of adaptation in communication.
With negative aspects of Pluto, there will be a tendency to argue, provoke, discuss unnecessarily, with therefore a little aggressiveness in the exchanges… with those of Neptune, there may be a side that is too easily influenced (in feminine sign ) or being able to influence in a roundabout way (masculine signs)… with those of Uranus, this will easily create tensions or discussions due to a lack of patience and nervousness… with those of Saturn, this will cause a lack of adaptation or even of confidence in the way of communicating…. with those of Jupiter, we find a risk of errors of judgment or appreciation but also the fact of knowing how to preach the false to know the true… those of Mars will create them also tensions or impulsive reactions in relationships…those of Venus (poorly aspected conjunction) will push to want to please at all costs but with inconsistent or contrary results… those of the Moon will give too much nervousness and a difficulty of adaptation…
As always, the aspects to Mercury must be synthesized, taking into account the sign of Mercury and that of the 7th house, which is the backdrop for the way in which this domain is lived.
You are most attracted to people who are intelligent, thoughtful, witty, and educated. Your business or life partner should be sharp, inquisitive and bright. They need communication and the exchange of ideas and information like the air they breathe. Always ready for a successful battle of words, a discussion or an argument, you are looking for an exchange of ideas with your social environment.
You may think a lot about your relationships and about interpersonal relationships in general. Marriage is also an important issue for you. You need a spouse who will challenge your spirit and satisfy your spiritual needs, a partner of the same spiritual level who will support you in every way – that is your great desire. This is of even greater value to you when it helps you adapt better and communicate more effectively with others. A person who initiates a lively flow of thought in you, thoughts that test and challenge your mental processes, who brings out the best in you and stimulates you in ways others may not understand.
That’s exactly what you’re looking for in a partner. He/she could be quick-witted, articulate, outspoken, energetic and energetic, but also very direct, argumentative and critical. Your partner may be involved in education, writing, travel, commerce, interpreting, secretarial, typing, or computer work. To get the most out of your relationship, you need to learn to control your belligerence and criticism. adapt better and communicate more effectively with others.
Each planets have a different effect on you, depending on which house and sign they reside in. In order to find out where they are located in your natal chart, you can use our free birth chart generator. Also, examine the aspects that they form with other planets in your chart. You will understand a lot more about the detailed role that they have in your horoscope.