North Node in the 7th House

Having your North Node in the 7th house of the natal chart automatically also means that the South Node is located in the 1st house. This natal placement of the North Node indicates a heavy emphasis on matters concerning one’s relationships and partnerships, while also influences his perception of Ego. In addition, the 7h/1st axis shows that your life lesson involves your attitude towards unification with other people and sharing your reality, while also is strongly connected to the terms “contract”, “agreement” and even “open enemies”. As the Lunar Nodes indicate Karmic debts and connections with previous lifetimes, the native who has the North Node in the 7th house must dedicate himself towards the difficult task of joining forces with other individuals.

The North Node in the 7th house invites them to seek association, partnership, the experience of a two-person relationship. This proposal might seem incongruous to them for people who need so much attention on themselves. “Of course I would like a partner! I am only asking for that ! The question is not whether they want one, but rather Why do they want a partner in their life? To take care of themselves and be listened to even more or to offer something?

Their lack of self-confidence, which is the source of their focus on themselves, means that they do not see what they could give.
The North Node in VII asks them to now focus their attention no longer on themselves, but on what they could give of themselves, what they could bring to others. It is a subtle difference for these people because during a whole part of their life, the South Node in houses I led them to spend a lot of time with themselves. They must now feel the difference between what they can give of themselves and what they are.

They have learned a lot about themselves but find themselves in an impoverished relational world. In the rest of their existence, the proposal to move towards the partnership of the North Node in the 7th house will only work if they approach it thinking about what they can offer and give to others. What complementarity can I offer, bring, give? Their challenge is to understand what they have to offer.

When they understand this energy and commit themselves to others with what they have to offer more than with the need to be attentive to their person, they will realize at the same time that all their quest for attention is not was intended only to arrive at that moment where, by the gift of their person without calculation and without expectation, they suddenly receive in return a delicious gratitude for what they are.

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